Getting impatient seeking a spouse ?

If you’ve been ready to get married for a very looong time and are getting tired of waiting, just realize that Allah (swt) is preparing your future spouse to be RIGHT for YOU 😉

So dont be impatient, and don’t rush Allah! 🙂 Keep making sincere du’a to Him, for He knows best the right time for you!

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Broadening our minds when seeking Spouses…

Written by our beloved Imam Zaid Shakir

From www.EternalGarment.com — A very thought-provoking article written by Imam Zaid Shakir…

Too many Muslims are involved in marriages that devolve into an empty observation of duties and an equally vacuous demand for the fulfillment
of rights. While such practices are laudable in their proper context, when they are divorced from kindness, consideration, empathy, and true commitment they define marriages that become a fragile caricature. Such relationships are irreparably shattered by a silly argument, a few wrinkles on the face, unwanted pounds around the waist, a personality quirk or a whimsical desire to play the field to see if one can latch on to someone prettier, wealthier, younger, or possibly more exciting than one’s spouse…

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Tips to win your spouse’s heart :-)

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Tips to win your WIFE’s heart:

♥ If your wife is still asleep when you have woken up, give her a gentle kiss on the forehead.

♥ Watch your wife’s beauty secretly.

♥ Whenever you have the opportunity, offer her a flower or a bouquet of flowers with a smile.

♥ Rather than trying to satisfy her too much, feel and say that YOU are satisfied with her. Your own satisfaction will satisfy her.

♥ On coming back home every time, give her a hug and a kiss on the forehead.

♥ Tell her that she looked really nice when she was asleep last night.

♥ Feel that you have never seen anybody like her and let her know it.

♥ Don’t look for her body. That’s already yours. Rather look for her mind. She’s looking for opportunities to offer it to you.

♥ Sometimes act like a child and let her teach you something. She can teach you some things that nobody else can.

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Tips to win your HUSBAND’s heart:

♥ Make Dua to Allah to make your marriage and relationship happy and successful.

♥ Try your best to be obedient and respectful of his (halal) requests.

♥ Always seek to please your husband, for he is your key to Jannah. The Prophet (saw) said “any woman who dies in a state where her husband is pleased with her, shall enter Jannah”.

♥ Be the first to apologize after arguments, even if you believe it wasn’t your fault. Allah (swt) will always honor and reward the one who tries to be the bigger person by humbling themself.

♥ Be grateful for all the things that your husband does do, and DONT ponder upon things that he doesnt do. An appreciative wife will always encourage the husband to naturally do more for his wife even without asking 😉

♥ Be playful, make jokes, and engage in fun activities with your husband. Make your husband want to come home to a fun and relaxing environment.

♥ Feel free to beautify and adorn yourself in the home for your husband. Your makeup, jewelry, and beauty is for him to appreciate, not the rest of the world.

♥ Review the characteristics of the Hoor Al-Ayn and try to imitate them if you can: ‘wear silk for your husband, put Kohl in your eyes to ‘enlarge’ them, and sing to your husband..’

♥ When your husband comes home, greet him with a warm hug and a beautiful and welcoming smile. Even if you have serious issues to talk about: delay that discussion till later when he is relaxed.

♥ As best as possible, keep the house clean and tidy… coming home to a nice clean organized home will definitely uplift his spirits and put him in a good mood…

What qualities to look for in a Spouse ?

There are millions of men looking for a wife, and millions of women looking for husbands, but sometimes people don’t know what qualities to look for, or how to go about seeking the right spouse for themselves.

Our beloved Prophet (saw) has encouraged us to seek Piety and Good Character above everything else. That doesn’t mean that we ignore other traits and qualities. It just means that we should make Piety and Good Character a high priority when we seek a spouse for marriage.

For a more detailed discussion of the topic, please checkout these two videos. Enjoy and share 🙂 Till next time… Salaam Alaykum, and Jumu’ah Mubarak!

How to Find your Islamic Soulmate

How to Find a Good Spouse